坦白?!
從前的我會覺得坦白是必須的，但練歷多了發現坦白在某些情況是於事無補，甚至乎令事件變得更糟...... 每個人心裡也有一條底線，越過了底線後，以坦白來換取(暫時的、週期性的)原諒、寬恕是可以的，但一根刺已狠狠地插在對方心上，傷口會隨着時間癒合，而那根剌則深深地埋藏在心裡，不時隱隱作痛，期望回復越界前的關係，不大可能了......
Labels: 不想長大
posted by 大膽謙 @ 22:35
有點壞，又不想長大...壞孩子，我是...你也是...
5 Comments:
relationship is a 2-way thing - even one side can be "回復越界前的關係" the other party has to "cooperate" if you know what i mean....
just go w/ the flow - sometimes it get worse if we are sooo worried about how certain things will go / work out. Although not ALL the time, time DO indeed help in healing for most cases - it's just a matter of the "length"...
i believe it's better to get it out rather than "dying w/ it" :PPPPP
yep agree with em! sometimes it's better to let go and be "natural" about it. we all belive in 緣份 and know very well that there is nothing we could do when it comes or goes.
Relax!
Um, I partially agree with you. Of course, everybody has our own secrets. But hidding more and more from your partner could create misunderstanding of each other. And, communication is so important. Always put your problem on the table and talk about it.
From San.
Em, 與其說是沈溺，倒不如說是習慣了，習慣是很難戒掉的，尤其是懷習慣呢! Ha! =P
Mag, 我相信緣份and i'll try my best to do something...... "do something" is part of the fate......
San, 我想不是所有事也可擺上枱講清楚的，坦白或許可以避勉誤會，對方或會原諒，但决不會忘記(耿耿於懷在所難勉)，相方的芥蒂油然而生......
p.s. you guys comments sound serious huh! =P
"習慣" to be frank?? is it really a 習慣? or shall we call it "personality"??
*LOL*
some times it makes your 習慣 to be part of your personalities / part of you.....
i know when it comes to bad habit...they said "gong shan yee gou, bun sing lan yee" ma keke
P.S. of course we're serious - we're seriously ur friends ma wakakakakakakakak
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